3 Secrets to a Successful Marriage
Biggest problems we would face in marriage :-

1/ In laws ` We are OK, we have very few.

2 Fighting over money.  Hey we are OK there too, we have little to fight over, lol.

3/ Alternate being 'emotionally or physically below par.'
He stressed that the marriage will survive one or other of us being, not at out best, but we had to be careful to alternate and not both be 'off,' at the same time.  lol.  Well so far so good.  We are doing our alternate sickies and have done so for 42 years and on the rare occasion when we have both been ill together, I have made a celebration of the rare event and told Reg we should take the French cure.   I have grabbed that for emergency use, good quality red wine out of the cupboard, and a couple of crystal wine glasses and we have gone to bed to party together.